Meditation is the practice of being at peace no matter what is presenting itself.
Most of us live in the dream of "how things ought to be" rather than in the actuality of the present moment. In other words. we are "playing God".
The habit of continually seeking for things to be other than they are can be broken. The key to breaking this habit is repeated surrender.
One of the things I admire about Muslims is that they pray five times each day. Can you imagine what your life would be like if you surrendered to "what is" that often every day. Here are some comforting words about the power of surrender from the Quran (2:186):
When My servants ask you about Me, I am always near. I answer their prayers when they pray to Me. The people shall respond to Me and believe in Me, in order to be guided.
The path to truth is surrender ... come on in ... the water's fine,
bob